Ladies, ya feel me when I say, when we go to the salon, we like a little attention. When it's our turn in that comfy stylist chair, we want the stylist to care about what they are doing, and at least care about us.
Yesterday I took advantage of a spa package my mom had purchased, at Forever Young Salon and Spa. Let me just say, I felt rushed, unimportant, and unwelcomed. The salon itself looks fabulous, and the majority of the staff seemed nice. However, the unnamed stylist who cut my hair was not personable at all. This lady didn't try to start any form of conversation or even pretend that she cared. I was not given what I was promised (and what my parents paid for) in the spa package. I did not feel pretty when I left, and had to rush home and get ready for work all over again.
When my mother called to (politely) give our concerns and exoerience, said unnamed stylist was rude, and basically blamed me for my experience.
What.
Needless to say, she will not recieve my business again.
My note to customers: Please remember that in any retail, sales, or service outlet, you never know what that employee may have going on. They may have had a rough day, something going on in their personal life, or anything at all. No, that doesn't give an excuse for bad service. But they aren't robots that can can flip a switch and become someone they aren't. Be considerate, tip as generously as possible, and be kind even when we aren't.
My note to the business world staff: Step up your game! Believe me I know it's hard to leave your personal life at the door. However, that is something we need to strive to do. To give our customers the best consistancy and experince they can possibly get. No matter what. Customer service is so very important.
And if you get a call with a complaint, apologize and make the customer happy. Admit you are wrong, but just be as civil as possible. Blaming the customer blatantly never ends well.)
Regardless, there is room for improvement on both sides.
Wednesday, August 22, 2012
Saturday, August 18, 2012
My Last
Well, this is the weekend before school starts. Excuse me, before senior year starts. I wish I could lay out my week for you so you could see exactly how crazy it will be. But for general common sense and internet safety, I shall not. I have multiple things scheduled for every single day for the next three weeks straight, maybe even longer than that. I'm trying vigorously not to have a mental break down as I type this. Although I wonder how all the other teens in BA make this lifestyle look so easy....
Oh well, I guess I need to accept the fact that I'm not like every other teen in BA. Which is true in many ways.
I will say, that I am very excited with what the next week will bring. And I am already more than willing to nap at any moment.
So on a less dramatic note, here are some of my back to school "Must Do's"
1. Wash and vaccum car before the first day. (Mine needs it BIG TIME)
2. Memorize your class schedule or make sure it's handy
3. purchase a planner. (I am a complusive list maker.)
4. Hair cut. (Make sure ends and roots all look fresh.)
5. Plan first day outfit (As of right now mine is going to be a comfy striped cotton dress from target, leopard print converse, my lavender coach satchel, some pretty earrings, and some teased hair)
6. Plan lunches, snacks, and have a water bottle handy. (You will eat healthier and cheaper if you plan ahead.)
Other things that are not just for the beginning of the year:
7. Decorate that backpack! Unfortanately very few students know how to do this without ruining a bag and looking tacky. This year I went the Jansport/ Pinterest route. A Jansport backpack will cost you anywhere from $30-$75. Which is expensive, BUT they are very high quality. Then I just took some pinterest inspiration and made it mine. (Lace ribbon from walmart and fabric glue. BOOM. CUTE.)
8. Make a playlist for the year. Mine will have songs like 'Amazing Life' by Britt Nicole, 'My Last' by Big Sean and plenty of others.
9. Back to food. Like I said before, I am extrememly busy. So this year, I'm going to keep a small ice chest in my truck with healthy snacks. I'll have things like fruit, yogurt, cheese sticks, pretzels, egg salad, and celery. I have a very fast metabolism, so I am always hungry!
10. Schedule (and even take) senior pictures early. I am using Brett Birdsong, whom I highly recommend. He is a fantastic professional, and you will have a blast shooting pictures with him! You can find his page on Facebook for more info.
11. A new perspective. This can be applied to anything. Study habits, teachers, the daily grind of high school, and your peers. This is something I'm going to especially going to work on. Yes, I'm going to be smart about who I hang around, and what I say, BUT something we all have to realize is that people change. We have no idea what a person goes through in their daily life when they aren't at school. The second thing we have to understand is that everyone just wants to feel accepted for who they are. So this year, throw someone you don't like a compliment. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Speak less, listen more.
12. Last, but certainly not least, Switch. Switch is the youth group at LifeChurch for middle school and high school students. High School service starts at 7:15, and you can find more info on the Switch facebook page. It's not a lengthy service, but long enough for fun and some Jesus. My favorite part is the small groups after service. LOVE THEM. I have connected with people so well there. I don't feel judged or scorned but accepted. The leaders are all very welcoming, and the students are there to get plugged in. Now its not perfect ( we still need shirts Matt!!!) but, it's somewhere I finally want to be.
Oh well, I guess I need to accept the fact that I'm not like every other teen in BA. Which is true in many ways.
I will say, that I am very excited with what the next week will bring. And I am already more than willing to nap at any moment.
So on a less dramatic note, here are some of my back to school "Must Do's"
1. Wash and vaccum car before the first day. (Mine needs it BIG TIME)
2. Memorize your class schedule or make sure it's handy
3. purchase a planner. (I am a complusive list maker.)
4. Hair cut. (Make sure ends and roots all look fresh.)
5. Plan first day outfit (As of right now mine is going to be a comfy striped cotton dress from target, leopard print converse, my lavender coach satchel, some pretty earrings, and some teased hair)
6. Plan lunches, snacks, and have a water bottle handy. (You will eat healthier and cheaper if you plan ahead.)
Other things that are not just for the beginning of the year:
7. Decorate that backpack! Unfortanately very few students know how to do this without ruining a bag and looking tacky. This year I went the Jansport/ Pinterest route. A Jansport backpack will cost you anywhere from $30-$75. Which is expensive, BUT they are very high quality. Then I just took some pinterest inspiration and made it mine. (Lace ribbon from walmart and fabric glue. BOOM. CUTE.)8. Make a playlist for the year. Mine will have songs like 'Amazing Life' by Britt Nicole, 'My Last' by Big Sean and plenty of others.
9. Back to food. Like I said before, I am extrememly busy. So this year, I'm going to keep a small ice chest in my truck with healthy snacks. I'll have things like fruit, yogurt, cheese sticks, pretzels, egg salad, and celery. I have a very fast metabolism, so I am always hungry!
10. Schedule (and even take) senior pictures early. I am using Brett Birdsong, whom I highly recommend. He is a fantastic professional, and you will have a blast shooting pictures with him! You can find his page on Facebook for more info.
11. A new perspective. This can be applied to anything. Study habits, teachers, the daily grind of high school, and your peers. This is something I'm going to especially going to work on. Yes, I'm going to be smart about who I hang around, and what I say, BUT something we all have to realize is that people change. We have no idea what a person goes through in their daily life when they aren't at school. The second thing we have to understand is that everyone just wants to feel accepted for who they are. So this year, throw someone you don't like a compliment. Give them the benefit of the doubt. Speak less, listen more.
12. Last, but certainly not least, Switch. Switch is the youth group at LifeChurch for middle school and high school students. High School service starts at 7:15, and you can find more info on the Switch facebook page. It's not a lengthy service, but long enough for fun and some Jesus. My favorite part is the small groups after service. LOVE THEM. I have connected with people so well there. I don't feel judged or scorned but accepted. The leaders are all very welcoming, and the students are there to get plugged in. Now its not perfect ( we still need shirts Matt!!!) but, it's somewhere I finally want to be.
Monday, August 13, 2012
Strictly Opinions.
Let me just warn you, this post is strictly opinions.
This will be my second year at Broken Arrow High School, so I know what to expect for the most part, anyway. For those of you who don't know...a lot of things are different this year.
First of all, the senior high campus is under a huge renovation thanks to the bonds we recieved back in 2009. From what I have been told, we will now have an additional gym, more classrooms, and another drama room. I've also heard rumor of another library. The sketches and plans do look quite fabulous, If I must say. However, I'm not looking forard to spending my glorious senior year in the site of the apocolypse. I'm going to be extremely careful so my car doesn't suffer any damages from the construction. (Parking lot B is closed this year. Arrive early if you want a spot.)
Another big change this year- no schedule pick up. That Stinks. Just Saying.
Schedule Pick up is not only a highly informative event, but also a social event. Students are able to pick up class schedules, senior shirts, parking permit, other school clothes, athletic passes, order yearbooks and much more. This year, they mailed out schedules and campus maps. Which I think makes it a bit more nerve racking. Even for a senior...
Administration has also made it very clear that they are not allowing schedule changes this year. I understand that some students take advantage of the two week window, but really. The juniors are going to have a heart attack. I'm simply saying the senior high needs to be ready for a mob of moms who won't take "No" for an answer.
One chunk of good news for senior high goers, the cafeteria will be serving some basic SUBWAY sandwiches this year. Which is definately a great alternative to the lard they normally serve. Also just saying. I hardly ever eat cafeteria food. I will gladly post a list of easy, healthy lunches within the next week.
Seniors- get ready. Less than two weeks away and our time to shine begins.
Juniors- good luck.
Friday, August 10, 2012
TGIF
As most of you know, I'm a hard worker. (Or I like to think that I am.) If I decide that I want something and it's out of reach, by golly, I'm gonna work for it. Typically to reach a sense of accomplishment, but that is really the icing on the cake.
Over the summer I've been working 3 jobs to pay for my wants/needs. Now granted, I still live at home and don't have a list of bills. My parents take good care of me and help me when I need it. (Like yesterday's mall trip for school clothes.) BUT, I bought my car, and everything that comes with that. I help pay for my car insurance each time I get paid as well. I pay for most of the things I want and need beyond that. Within the next week I will have my truck paid off, and tags on it as well. That is an awesome sense of accomplishment. How many of the kids at BA senior high can say that? Very few, I'm sure!
So with that said, if any little teen that just got their license hits MY truck in the school parking lot, you better believe the fight is on. Just sayin. (And this is where I play the clip of Melissa Peterman saying "And that is what they call, A THREAT!" in the second episode of Baby Daddy on ABC Family.)
I also have recently had a young man give me grief about how much I work. He's always saying things like "You need a life!", or "Don't work too hard!". But meaning them more than the normal person might. Then he goes on to tell me that his parents (he is a 23 year old grown man/ college student) bought his car and still pay for most his sh**,(his words, not mine) and he would rather sit at home and do nothing than work. Wow. That's super grown up and mature. I nicely replied that I like having my own check to pay for my own things. I'm still honestly just shocked at how dependent and even arrogant that sounds.
One thing that I want to accomplish within myself is a sense of indepence. I'm almost there, but still have some growing up to do. And especially before I get married and commit my life to someone, I need to know that I can stand on my own two feet first. Financially, mentally, and in many other ways. I want to know that I can take care of myself. Then when the time is right, I'll learn how to depend on someone and have them depend on me. It's all a process, really.
P.S. Yes, I am glad it's Friday! Just like anyone else! But like I told Ben, (We will rename the 23 yr old above Ben. You're welcome.) my weekend is very very busy and full. But in the end, it will all be worth it! And I think I just might reward myself w Happy Hour at Sonic after work! Yes sir!
Over the summer I've been working 3 jobs to pay for my wants/needs. Now granted, I still live at home and don't have a list of bills. My parents take good care of me and help me when I need it. (Like yesterday's mall trip for school clothes.) BUT, I bought my car, and everything that comes with that. I help pay for my car insurance each time I get paid as well. I pay for most of the things I want and need beyond that. Within the next week I will have my truck paid off, and tags on it as well. That is an awesome sense of accomplishment. How many of the kids at BA senior high can say that? Very few, I'm sure!
So with that said, if any little teen that just got their license hits MY truck in the school parking lot, you better believe the fight is on. Just sayin. (And this is where I play the clip of Melissa Peterman saying "And that is what they call, A THREAT!" in the second episode of Baby Daddy on ABC Family.)
I also have recently had a young man give me grief about how much I work. He's always saying things like "You need a life!", or "Don't work too hard!". But meaning them more than the normal person might. Then he goes on to tell me that his parents (he is a 23 year old grown man/ college student) bought his car and still pay for most his sh**,(his words, not mine) and he would rather sit at home and do nothing than work. Wow. That's super grown up and mature. I nicely replied that I like having my own check to pay for my own things. I'm still honestly just shocked at how dependent and even arrogant that sounds.
One thing that I want to accomplish within myself is a sense of indepence. I'm almost there, but still have some growing up to do. And especially before I get married and commit my life to someone, I need to know that I can stand on my own two feet first. Financially, mentally, and in many other ways. I want to know that I can take care of myself. Then when the time is right, I'll learn how to depend on someone and have them depend on me. It's all a process, really.
P.S. Yes, I am glad it's Friday! Just like anyone else! But like I told Ben, (We will rename the 23 yr old above Ben. You're welcome.) my weekend is very very busy and full. But in the end, it will all be worth it! And I think I just might reward myself w Happy Hour at Sonic after work! Yes sir!
Monday, August 6, 2012
One Direction...Well, Not Really.
I'd like to say that my blog has "One Direction", but not only is there no boy band associated with my banter, but my blog is also more like a rabbit trail. And that is perfectly okay with me. My Monday has been a roller coaster from marvelous to leave-me-alone!
First of all at the gym today, it was a typical monday. Not a whole lot of gym goers, but lots of phone calls, cleaning, and snack breaks! But like I've said before, I love my gym family! I also had fun surprising my boss with some grub later in the afternoon. Then I went back to my Steve Martin clone, I mean um...pediatrician. He really is a great guy! But then he sent me to have more bloodwork done. Then he wasn't so great. Thankfully that didn't last long. Now most of my readers, know me personally. Thus you know I've been dealing with mono.
SIDE NOTE---> Just in case you haven't done your WebMD research, you can get mono from any transfer of salive. Ex. sharing cups, sharing eating utensils, and yes- kissing. But how I actually got it, I don't know. Also, people don't realize how long mono can actually last. In some cases students have missed an entire semester of school. One of the main symptoms is fatigue. Mono can really take a toll on a person. The other main concern is the potential of the spleen to swell. This can put athletes on the bench for months. Kids or adults who have mono and a swollen spleen are at risk to rupture their spleen during laborious activities and cause internal bleeding. This could in turn become deadly. So it's important to be careful.
Now with my case. I have done lots of sleeping, and lots of couch potato-ing. Although my doctor was not so excited with how busy I've been with my 3 jobs. Oops...well I guess I'll have to give "taking it easy" some more effort. So come on people cut me just a wee bit of slack! I have more on my metaphoric plate of life than a girl with menstral cramps has on her dinner plate. (And let me tell you that is a lot!) Although, on the flip side of that, everything I have on this plate really excites me! I crave to put more on it and accomplish more but I have know I have to open up some space on my plate first.
I'm also currently watching a show on the CW about modeling. I believe it's called "Remodeled", I'll have to do some research on that. The show is partly about an up and coming model and also about Paul, the owner of The Network. Paul wanted to connect all the small town agencies and find the raw talent we have! But every time I watch a show about modeling and fashion and the industry with attitude, it reminds me of the hidden passion I have to be that girl. I've done a few auditions in my day, and I love it. Even the little auditions I've done have been exciting. I have recieved call backs almost each time. However, the cost of the initial walk in the door was not feesable for the day. But seriously how fun is that?! I love the idea of being a runway model! I love photo shoots, I love pictures, I love glam! I don't know if my life will take me in this path or even the professional version of that path. But it's still a possibility! And even if I don't hit the runway for Andy Hilfiger, or IMTA, or even John Casablancas, I know there are things I can do to feel like a supermodel. Here is my super model 101 tips for the day:
1. Keep up with the trends, but don't be a sheep. Incorporate the hot styles, but be unique. Check my blog each season for my newest trend loves!
2. Be kind to your skin! This is a huge umbrella of tips and tricks. One of the most important is don't go to sleep with your makeup on. I personally use baby wipes to take my makeup off at night. I also don't wear all of my makeup every day. Typically I just use bas, blush, and mascara. Classic and pretty. Just make sure those eyelashes are visible!
3. Don't be afraid to try new styles with your hair. Watch YouTube videos, let wet hair dry in curlers (way cooler than blow drying), or copy cat a celeb style.
4. Accessorize! I cannot emphasize this enough! One day try one statement piece, the next day try a matching set. Break out those statement sunglasses, and those sassy shoes. I'm also quite obsessed with DIY fashion!
5. Use skin renewal techniques, looks, and fashion that makes you feel confident. That is the most important thing of all!
And this is only the tip of the iceberg. I could literally write a novel on random tips and tricks for being the best you ! As for right now, I'm gonna enjoy some more of "Remodeled" on the CW.
Kisses!
P.S. (last note, I swear!) Don't let those rich girls in the hallway make you lose your confidence. They may look like they have it all, but they don't. Also remember though, as much as some girls seem like plastic barbies, they are people too. So kill em with kindness! And listen about how they whisper about your fantastic confidence and style (;
First of all at the gym today, it was a typical monday. Not a whole lot of gym goers, but lots of phone calls, cleaning, and snack breaks! But like I've said before, I love my gym family! I also had fun surprising my boss with some grub later in the afternoon. Then I went back to my Steve Martin clone, I mean um...pediatrician. He really is a great guy! But then he sent me to have more bloodwork done. Then he wasn't so great. Thankfully that didn't last long. Now most of my readers, know me personally. Thus you know I've been dealing with mono.
SIDE NOTE---> Just in case you haven't done your WebMD research, you can get mono from any transfer of salive. Ex. sharing cups, sharing eating utensils, and yes- kissing. But how I actually got it, I don't know. Also, people don't realize how long mono can actually last. In some cases students have missed an entire semester of school. One of the main symptoms is fatigue. Mono can really take a toll on a person. The other main concern is the potential of the spleen to swell. This can put athletes on the bench for months. Kids or adults who have mono and a swollen spleen are at risk to rupture their spleen during laborious activities and cause internal bleeding. This could in turn become deadly. So it's important to be careful.
Now with my case. I have done lots of sleeping, and lots of couch potato-ing. Although my doctor was not so excited with how busy I've been with my 3 jobs. Oops...well I guess I'll have to give "taking it easy" some more effort. So come on people cut me just a wee bit of slack! I have more on my metaphoric plate of life than a girl with menstral cramps has on her dinner plate. (And let me tell you that is a lot!) Although, on the flip side of that, everything I have on this plate really excites me! I crave to put more on it and accomplish more but I have know I have to open up some space on my plate first.
I'm also currently watching a show on the CW about modeling. I believe it's called "Remodeled", I'll have to do some research on that. The show is partly about an up and coming model and also about Paul, the owner of The Network. Paul wanted to connect all the small town agencies and find the raw talent we have! But every time I watch a show about modeling and fashion and the industry with attitude, it reminds me of the hidden passion I have to be that girl. I've done a few auditions in my day, and I love it. Even the little auditions I've done have been exciting. I have recieved call backs almost each time. However, the cost of the initial walk in the door was not feesable for the day. But seriously how fun is that?! I love the idea of being a runway model! I love photo shoots, I love pictures, I love glam! I don't know if my life will take me in this path or even the professional version of that path. But it's still a possibility! And even if I don't hit the runway for Andy Hilfiger, or IMTA, or even John Casablancas, I know there are things I can do to feel like a supermodel. Here is my super model 101 tips for the day:
1. Keep up with the trends, but don't be a sheep. Incorporate the hot styles, but be unique. Check my blog each season for my newest trend loves!
2. Be kind to your skin! This is a huge umbrella of tips and tricks. One of the most important is don't go to sleep with your makeup on. I personally use baby wipes to take my makeup off at night. I also don't wear all of my makeup every day. Typically I just use bas, blush, and mascara. Classic and pretty. Just make sure those eyelashes are visible!
3. Don't be afraid to try new styles with your hair. Watch YouTube videos, let wet hair dry in curlers (way cooler than blow drying), or copy cat a celeb style.
4. Accessorize! I cannot emphasize this enough! One day try one statement piece, the next day try a matching set. Break out those statement sunglasses, and those sassy shoes. I'm also quite obsessed with DIY fashion!
5. Use skin renewal techniques, looks, and fashion that makes you feel confident. That is the most important thing of all!
And this is only the tip of the iceberg. I could literally write a novel on random tips and tricks for being the best you ! As for right now, I'm gonna enjoy some more of "Remodeled" on the CW.
P.S. (last note, I swear!) Don't let those rich girls in the hallway make you lose your confidence. They may look like they have it all, but they don't. Also remember though, as much as some girls seem like plastic barbies, they are people too. So kill em with kindness! And listen about how they whisper about your fantastic confidence and style (;
Friday, August 3, 2012
Fall 2012
Fall is my absolute favorite season! The warm colors, the cool breezes, hoodies, boots, jeans, coffee, chili, it all just makes me so happy! Now I realize that fall is at least another month out, and I'm still praying for some relief from these temps soon. However, I am excited for this fall's fashion trends!
As I have said before, I am quite obsessed with pinterest. So photo credit goes to pinterest today!
TREND ONE: Sweet pastel colors. Neon used to be the "In" thing, but now it's sweet and elegant. Neon can be added for a pop of color, but please use neon responsibly. This outfit shown is perfect for an outdoor party, or add a cardigan and wear it to church. It's super feminine as well as sassy with the neude pumps.
TREND TWO: Chevron. I love this pattern so much and wish I could have it everywhere! I had a really hard time choosing what example photo to use for this one. There are just so many possibilities. But this adorable maxi dress is great for any occasion. Just add a cardigan or even a blazer for school or church. This would go great with loose curls if worn on its own, or a messy ballerina bun if worn with a blazer. Remember to stick with one pattern per outfit. You don't want your outfit to be too busy. You'll attract attention for the wrong reason!
TREND THREE: Tiffany Blue. This is a gorgeous color! I've seen it used on Vans, Nikes, and several other accessories, as well as dresses. This color is clean and fresh and a great pop of color. These shoes I would most likely pair with a pair of skinny jeans (colored or denim), with a tucked in black v-neck and belt. Hair could be worn any style. The hairstyle helps determined if you're going for an edgy look or simply good looks and good taste.
TREND FOUR: Bold words. These do not need to be offenseive, but can still pack a punch. I recently made my own shirt with the words Plie, Chasse, Jete, All day. (French ballet terms). I simple used a medicine dropper to write with bleach on a black v-neck top. It turned out great and had an awesome vintage look. I really like the shirt pictured as well. It's bold and sassy! There are tons of tops like this on pinterest with links so you can order them, or I suggest you get crafty amd make them! Personlaization makes it truly yours. One of a kind.
TREND FIVE: Comfy Chic. Dress up that hoodie and claim it! I love this unique hoodie in particular and really wish I knew where to get it without spending a lot. It's definately chic, and great for our brutal Oklahoma Fall/ Winter. Whether it's that time of the month, running late, sick, or bad day, don't show it! You can still be in your comfort zone and look great at the same time! After you throw on your hoodie and (skinny jeans and boots) or (regular jeans and Nikes) tease up a cute ponytail, and some cute earrings. Grab a hot choclate on your way out the door and soothe your worries away!
I'm excited to see the new trends this fall, and what I will find while shopping. Keep checking back for more style and shopping tips. And don't be afraid to try something new!
As I have said before, I am quite obsessed with pinterest. So photo credit goes to pinterest today!
TREND ONE: Sweet pastel colors. Neon used to be the "In" thing, but now it's sweet and elegant. Neon can be added for a pop of color, but please use neon responsibly. This outfit shown is perfect for an outdoor party, or add a cardigan and wear it to church. It's super feminine as well as sassy with the neude pumps. 
TREND TWO: Chevron. I love this pattern so much and wish I could have it everywhere! I had a really hard time choosing what example photo to use for this one. There are just so many possibilities. But this adorable maxi dress is great for any occasion. Just add a cardigan or even a blazer for school or church. This would go great with loose curls if worn on its own, or a messy ballerina bun if worn with a blazer. Remember to stick with one pattern per outfit. You don't want your outfit to be too busy. You'll attract attention for the wrong reason!
I'm excited to see the new trends this fall, and what I will find while shopping. Keep checking back for more style and shopping tips. And don't be afraid to try something new!
Modge Podge.
Okay readers, (my few loyal readers), I will apologize in advance for the multitude of blog postings today. Also for the randomness, rants, and just blabbering. I have a lot to get off my chest today. So today you're getting a "Modge podge" of my life.
First of all, I''m gonna take this opportunity to put in my two cents on the Chick-fil-a scandal.
To those of you bashing the company: Chick-fil-a was not being hateful towards gays, simply stating our beliefs. Also, if you pay even the slightest bit of attention to what the company does, you would already know it is a Christian company. Not perfect, but Christian. Closed on Sundays, my goodness! In the Christian belief system, we follow Jesus Christ and His word. In this said word, it says marriage is to be between a man and a woman (see Genisis 2:24). It also says "Love your neighbor" (see Matthew 22:39).
To the homosexual community: I personally am not going to be rude or hateful to you. Yes, I disagree with your lifestyle.(No I do not want to see PDA). But I'm going to do my best in just showing you the love of God. That;s what He intended, not all this hate. No one is perfect, only Jesus was. But each and every day we should strive closer to a Christ like lifestyle. And I'm sure Chick-fil-a will still happily serve you some chicken nuggets.
By the way, we are exercising our freedom of speech just as much as you are exercising your freedom of religion/orientation. (Or whatever amendment being gay falls under.)
I am also learning the hard way, that some people are truly just hard to deal with. Now hear me out-in most cases of conflict, we need to simply be quick to apologize, and quick to forgive. Often times we need to stop and give the other party some slack because of what is going on in their own life. But in some cases, any way you choose to deal with the problem- is just wrong. Ignoring the problem, talking about it, whatever the case may be. And then the issue doesnt get resolved, and turns into a vicious cycle. This is one reason I don't have a lot of friends. I choose for it to be this way. I have a few friends that are important to me, and one or two that I spend time with. Yes, if you need a friend, call me. I'll be your shoulder to cry on. But don't get offended when you figure out how much of an introvert I am trying to be. (I really am working on my blabber mouth....can't you tell?)
The reason above is one of many I stay so busy. I currently have 3 jobs, as well as keeping up with my large family at home, my sweet boyfriend, and senior year starting in three weeks. EEK! (Not to mention ballet practice, the TWO weddings I'm in this fall, and my 18th birthday in November.) But like I told someone yesterday, I work a lot because I'm trying to be responsible and take care of myself. I like having my own paycheck and being able to pay for my own things, and saving for my future. I should have my truck paid off in about a week and a half, and will then continue working to get the tags on it as well as the plethora of clothes I need for school this year. It is so exciting to me to be able to say I bought my truck/gas/car insurance. Or these shoes, this purse, this project I did, etc.
I'm tired a lot from being so busy, as well as being sick lately. But I know my hard work will pay off later. And when times seem tough I just have to remember how much God has brought me through over the last year. The list and story with all of that is tremendous.
Also, if anyone wondered...I will happily accept QT cards for my birthday this year.
So who wants to bring me some Chick-fil-a for lunch at work? I'm here til 2.
And then let's petition for a Chick-fil-a in BA!!!
First of all, I''m gonna take this opportunity to put in my two cents on the Chick-fil-a scandal.
To those of you bashing the company: Chick-fil-a was not being hateful towards gays, simply stating our beliefs. Also, if you pay even the slightest bit of attention to what the company does, you would already know it is a Christian company. Not perfect, but Christian. Closed on Sundays, my goodness! In the Christian belief system, we follow Jesus Christ and His word. In this said word, it says marriage is to be between a man and a woman (see Genisis 2:24). It also says "Love your neighbor" (see Matthew 22:39).
To the homosexual community: I personally am not going to be rude or hateful to you. Yes, I disagree with your lifestyle.(No I do not want to see PDA). But I'm going to do my best in just showing you the love of God. That;s what He intended, not all this hate. No one is perfect, only Jesus was. But each and every day we should strive closer to a Christ like lifestyle. And I'm sure Chick-fil-a will still happily serve you some chicken nuggets.
By the way, we are exercising our freedom of speech just as much as you are exercising your freedom of religion/orientation. (Or whatever amendment being gay falls under.)
I am also learning the hard way, that some people are truly just hard to deal with. Now hear me out-in most cases of conflict, we need to simply be quick to apologize, and quick to forgive. Often times we need to stop and give the other party some slack because of what is going on in their own life. But in some cases, any way you choose to deal with the problem- is just wrong. Ignoring the problem, talking about it, whatever the case may be. And then the issue doesnt get resolved, and turns into a vicious cycle. This is one reason I don't have a lot of friends. I choose for it to be this way. I have a few friends that are important to me, and one or two that I spend time with. Yes, if you need a friend, call me. I'll be your shoulder to cry on. But don't get offended when you figure out how much of an introvert I am trying to be. (I really am working on my blabber mouth....can't you tell?)
The reason above is one of many I stay so busy. I currently have 3 jobs, as well as keeping up with my large family at home, my sweet boyfriend, and senior year starting in three weeks. EEK! (Not to mention ballet practice, the TWO weddings I'm in this fall, and my 18th birthday in November.) But like I told someone yesterday, I work a lot because I'm trying to be responsible and take care of myself. I like having my own paycheck and being able to pay for my own things, and saving for my future. I should have my truck paid off in about a week and a half, and will then continue working to get the tags on it as well as the plethora of clothes I need for school this year. It is so exciting to me to be able to say I bought my truck/gas/car insurance. Or these shoes, this purse, this project I did, etc.
I'm tired a lot from being so busy, as well as being sick lately. But I know my hard work will pay off later. And when times seem tough I just have to remember how much God has brought me through over the last year. The list and story with all of that is tremendous.
Also, if anyone wondered...I will happily accept QT cards for my birthday this year.
So who wants to bring me some Chick-fil-a for lunch at work? I'm here til 2.
And then let's petition for a Chick-fil-a in BA!!!
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